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Get convenient access to Group Coaching & Intimate Sharing Exclusively for gay men! Get Mastery-Level Coaching & Support To Get Stronger & Feel Better at an affordable price of only $47/month.

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First meeting is FREE. Introductory price of $47 goes up to $97 if you join after Enrollment closes. 

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Saturday, Sept 6, 2025 02:00 PM EST

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Monthly after 14 day trial

This is an introductory pricing during enrollment period, after which the price goes up to $97 per month.

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GayCourses.com Course#1 Included for FREE!

The #1Course "Your Perfect Husband" is included for all participants in the Gay Man's Group.  Get the training to create the best relationships of your life!

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127-page journaling system Included

You also get a 127-page advanced journal for self-esteem and empowerment that Paul has been using for 10 years. You will receive a PDF copy that you can print and use immediately. 

This journal is based on the work of Nathaniel Branden, Ph.D., who is the founder of the self-esteem movement and who created a powerful system for personal transformation.  

This journal alone, which has 127 pages, will profoundly increase your ability to grow stronger and become more effective in your life.

Paul Angelo's Journaling System

Humility Framework For Collaboration

How Gay Men Work Together

The Humility Framework (above) for collaboration helps gay men recognize the strength and empowerment that come from shifting the focus from weaknesses to strengths. Often, when gay men meet, they tend to judge each other based on observed weaknesses. This framework suggests that while everyone has their own areas of strength and weakness, connecting those with specific strengths to those with corresponding weaknesses can significantly accelerate progress and transformation. 

To facilitate this process, embracing humility is essential. Humility allows us to acknowledge our weaknesses without shame and to offer our strengths generously to others. By fostering a culture of mutual support and understanding, the Humility Framework encourages gay men to collaborate and grow together. Admitting our vulnerabilities and seeking help from those who are stronger creates an environment where everyone can thrive. 

This approach helps build deeper, more meaningful connections, as men come together not to judge but to uplift one another. By focusing on strengths and fostering humility, we pave the way for a supportive and empowering community. This creates opportunities for every individual to flourish and reach their full potential. Ultimately, the Humility Framework transforms the way we interact, leading to a stronger, more resilient community where collaboration and mutual growth are prioritized.


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What you get

What is included

Group coaching 2 x month on Sat at 2 PM EST.
For those in EU/UK - time is 7 PM.
Free access to guided meditations every week.
We explore your Stories/Narratives that shape your life.
Restoration habits that heal/restore/energize you.
Each group coaching call is 90-120 minutes.
You get a Free Bonus Course "Your Perfect Husband".
Free 127-Page Journal System for Self-Esteem & Empowerment.
No risk - cancel anytime.

Common Questions:

Why is intimate group coaching so powerful?

In today's world, many of our thoughts and experiences go unvalidated by others. This is largely due to the rise of hookup apps and the prevalence of shallow conversations, which have replaced the deep, intimate connections that were once more common. When our thoughts and feelings aren't acknowledged or validated, it can lead to a sense of isolation and mental stress. This stress often stems from the overwhelming inner chatter and dialogue that never gets "made real" through meaningful conversation.

Without validation, these unexpressed thoughts can build up, leading to increased anxiety and, eventually, depression. This is where the power of group coaching comes in. Group coaching offers a unique and invaluable opportunity for validation. By observing and engaging with others in a supportive environment, you begin to see your own experiences mirrored in the stories and emotions of those around you. This shared understanding helps to diffuse the inner voices and mental chatter, allowing you to feel seen and heard.

As your thoughts and feelings are validated by others, a sense of peace and calm can begin to replace the anxiety and turmoil that once dominated your inner world. Group coaching not only fosters personal growth but also creates a sense of community and connection, helping you to reclaim the deep, meaningful conversations that are essential for emotional well-being.

What are the dates for meetings?

Every month you will get the notifications for each meeting's date and time so that you never miss our calls. Our meetings are on the first and third Saturday. 

How does this work?

We meet twice a month on Saturday and participate in a series of conversations, workshops, and exercises designed to empower, uplift, and strengthen your mind and spirit. 

During the calls, we will establish habits and rituals that you can practice in your daily life, including meditation, journaling, a morning routine, emotional sharing, and many others. You will leave our group empowered and ready to face the world with a smile.

What kind of coaching is provided?

You get professional coaching about self-esteem, confidence, sexuality & spirituality.

What are the requirements to join?

The only requirement is that you are a gay man 18+ interested in learning and becoming a stronger and more loving version of yourself.  Closeted and bisexual men are also welcomed. 

How much does it cost?

$47 per month if you join during enrollment which varies from month to month.  If you join after the enrollment week, the price goes up to $97 per month.

What is the return policy?

You can cancel at any time.  Once the payment goes through, there are no refunds.  You can attend 2 meetings a month or 1 meeting a month and the price is the same.  

How do I access the Bonus Course?

Once you join us, you will get instant access to the course.  You will get the link to the free registration on GayCourses.com and get immediate access to the course.

What happens after I sign up?

Once you join us, you be asked to fill out a questionnaire to find out what you are specifically looking to achieve in the group and the challenges you are experiencing.  

You will also get instant access to the relationship course "Your Perfect Husband", which you can take in the days prior to our next meeting. 

You will also get the PDF version of Paul's journal and begin your journaling practice, although this is not required - we will discuss the journal together during our calls.

Who is the coach?

Your coach is Paul Angelo MHA, MBA.  He has been coaching gay men for over a decade and is the founder of the Big Gay Family Social Program and the founder of GayCourses.com.  Paul is the author of 5 training courses about gay relationships, dating and sexuality and offers practical insights into gay life and relationships.  

Benefits:

Relate and connect with others: When you're a single gay man, it can be challenging to connect with others and feel a sense of belonging. A group coaching program provides a supportive environment where you can relate to others who share similar experiences and build lasting connections.
Gain a fresh perspective: Sometimes when we're struggling, it can be hard to see past our own problems. In a supportive group coaching environment, hearing from others can open up new viewpoints and provide insight into resolving personal struggles.
Discover solutions to personal problems: By engaging with a diverse group of peers, you'll be introduced to new solutions and strategies for dealing with interpersonal and life challenges.
Empathize and learn from others: Learning from others' successes and struggles allows you to develop empathy and a sense of connectedness, also providing strategies to tackle similar issues.
Develop deeper interpersonal skills: Enhancing communication and conflict resolution skills is essential for healthy relationships and lifelong growth; the group coaching format provides opportunities for interpersonal skill development.
Experience accountability and motivation: Group coaching fosters a culture of accountability, providing a drive to keep pushing forward both for yourself and that of peers.
Witness transformational experiences: Seeing personal transformations firsthand from others in the group also provides inspiration in your personal journey.
Step out of comfort zones: In a supportive group, being vulnerable is more accessible, this can lead to more significant change and growth in one's life.
Get customized solutions: By engaging with a group of diverse individuals, the coaching program provides customized perspectives based on shared situations leading to personal breakthroughs.
Create a healthy, authentic life: Growing alongside others in the group coaching environment strengthens your ability to navigate issues and relationships, the skills and perspectives you'll develop, contributing to a healthy and authentic life.
When compared to traditional individual coaching, group coaching harnesses the power of social dynamics to provide transformational experiences that inspire, motivate, and reinforce self-awareness. Being part of a group and acknowledging shared experiences can drive meaningful personal development, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling, rewarding life.

Participation Policy:

Respect: Be respectful to all members of the group, even if you disagree with them. Avoid using derogatory language or engaging in bullying behavior.

Example: Refrain from using homophobic slurs, or making derogatory comments about someone's appearance or lifestyle.
Active Listening: Actively listen to others in the group without interrupting or over-talking. This creates an environment where opinions and feedback can be shared freely.

Example: Instead of tuning out or interrupting when someone is speaking, really focus on what they are saying, and respond thoughtfully when it's your turn to speak.
Personal responsibility: Take responsibility for your own actions and avoid blaming others for problems or issues. This includes being accountable for your own happiness and wellbeing.

Example: Rather than blaming someone else for your problems, identify what actions you can take to improve the situation. If you're feeling overwhelmed or stressed, take a break or reach out for support.
Confidentiality: Keep the privacy of group members confidential. This creates a safe and secure environment where people can share their experiences and feelings freely.

Example: Avoid sharing group member's personal information with others outside the group or discussing their experiences with others without their permission.
Mindfulness: Practice mindfulness and avoid reacting impulsively. This creates a space where individuals can be thoughtful and intentional in their interactions with others.

Example: Take a moment to check in with yourself before reacting to something that triggers an intense emotional response. Breathe and calm yourself, then respond in a thoughtful way.
Constructive Feedback: Offer feedback in a constructive and respectful manner, while also being open to receiving feedback from others. This creates constructive and helpful exchanges in the group.

Example: If you disagree with someone's opinion, ask respectful questions that seek understanding rather than judge them. Similarly, if you receive feedback from others, listen thoughtfully and engage in a constructive dialogue about the issue.
Boundaries: Respect the personal boundaries of others, and set your own boundaries when necessary. This ensures that everyone feels safe and respected in the group.

Example: Respect someone's decision to not share certain aspects of their life in the group or not to socialize outside the group. Similarly, communicate your own boundaries clearly to other group members.
Inclusivity: Create an inclusive environment for people of all races, ages, and abilities. This ensures that everyone feels welcome and respected in the group.

Example: Be aware of your own biases and be open to learning and understanding more about people who have different experiences than your own. Use inclusive language and avoid making assumptions about others.
Non-judgment: Avoid making judgments about others or their choices. Instead, foster an environment of compassion and understanding.

Example: Rather than judging someone's dating habits or sexuality, engage in a constructive dialogue around their experiences and feelings. Be open to learning and seeking to understand.
Growth mindset: Approach the group with a growth mindset, willing to learn and grow from the experiences of yourself and others. This creates a space where individuals can challenge themselves and grow in their dating and relationship skills.

Example: Be open to new ideas and insights, and be willing to challenge your own assumptions and beliefs. Look for opportunities to learn and grow from others in the group.

Topics Covered:

Understanding and Coping with Shame

What messages about being gay did you receive growing up? How have those messages impacted you? Have you ever experienced homophobia or discrimination? How did that make you feel and how did you cope with it?
Building Strong Self-Esteem

How do you define yourself besides your sexual orientation? What makes you unique and valuable as a person? What self-care strategies work well for you, and what are some new ones you want to try?
Navigating Emotions

What's your go-to strategy when life is emotionally overwhelming? What are some other strategies you can try to label your emotions and better express them? How can someone differentiate healthy stress vs. unhealthy stress and find solutions to manage them?
Developing Healthy Boundaries

What are some of your limits in relationships and dating? Are there areas you feel you need to set stronger boundaries? How do you communicate your boundaries to potential partners or friends in an effective way that ensures they are respected?
Building Healthy Romantic Relationships

What are some of the most important pieces of advice you've received related to building strong relationships? How can you hold yourself accountable to build a relationship that is respectful and non-toxic?
Understanding Sexuality

How do you identify yourself, and what has your journey of self-identification been like? How do you feel about your body during and after sexual encounters? What are some positive self-talk strategies?
Forming Friendships and Building Community

How do you prefer to make new friends? What are some strategies that have worked in the past? What social activities would you like to explore around other gay men? How can you use experiences to connect and support each other?
Overcoming Trauma

What trauma have you faced in the past, and how has it affected your life and relationships? How can you identify unhealthy patterns in relationships, which might be caused by past trauma?
Managing Insecurity

What are some of the biggest areas where you feel insecure about yourself? Are these insecurities holding you back in life? How might you create an actionable plan that directly addresses your insecurities to help overcome them?
Building Better Communication Skills

How would you rate your communication skills in general? Where do you excel and where do you struggle? What are some non-verbal communication techniques you find helpful in difficult or high-stress conversations?
Strategies for Overcoming Loneliness

What are some of the causes of loneliness in the gay community? What are some strategies for building a support system that helps combat loneliness?
Creating A Supportive Life Environment

What environmental factors negatively impact your wellbeing? How you can we alter those factors to support positive mental health? What environmental factors positively impact your wellbeing?
Understanding and Overcoming Narcissism

Can you identify someone who may exhibit narcisstic traits? How do you recognize these traits in yourself and counteract the impact of harmful, self-centered behaviors?
Coping with Abandonment Trauma

What triggers you emotionally related to abandonment, and how can you create a plan to counteract past trauma's potential impact? What strategies do you currently have for dealing with emotional attachment and abandonment issues?
Strategies for Successful Dating

What are your current habits when you are on dating apps or when you pursue potential partners? How about in person? What specific relationship traits would help you be most fulfilled, and how can you communicate those openly and honestly to potential partners?
Techniques for Empathy and Compassion

What are some of the benefits of employing empathy and compassion in your daily interactions? What negative experiences have you had, where the presence of a greater degree of empathy and compassion could have changed the outcome?
Building Resilience

What specific past setbacks have you faced that required you to draw upon a deep level of resilience? What strategies do you consider helpful when dealing with setbacks or feeling like giving up?
Understanding consent and boundaries in sexual scenarios

Have you ever encountered a situation where you were uncomfortable with the progression of sexual activities with a partner? How did you handle it? What are some steps that can be taken to facilitate open communication regarding sexual boundaries between partners?

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