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50 Magical Phrases That Build Love And Intimacy In Gay Friendships And Relationships
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[/vc_column_text][templatera id=”25414″][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Most gay men undervalue the impact of their language on their gay relationships and friendships. Make a choice to consciously nurture your relationships with verbal communications of love. Be kind and sincere. Ask open-ended questions with an open heart. Listen emphatically and non-defensively. Remember, there are no conditions, no strings, no expectations, and no manipulations. Simply, love to love. Sprinkle your relationships with these loving sentiments and watch your relationships blossom:
- I am here for you.
- Thank you. Thanks for all you do for me and all the ways in which you add value to my life.
- You are beautiful. What I find most beautiful about you, inside and out, is: _____.
- How are you? Truthfully, fully and completely — how are you, really?
- Tell me about your dreams.
- Tell me about your fears.
- Tell me about your beliefs about life, love, the world, etc.
- I am thinking about you.
- I appreciate you.
- I care about your feelings.
- You are important to me.
- I made a mistake and I’m sorry. I sincerely apologize. Please forgive me.
- I value our relationship.
- I am grateful and fortunate to have you in my life.
- What can I do to support you?
- How are you feeling about our relationship?
- How are you feeling about me?
- The qualities I love about you most are: _____.
- I notice and really appreciate your efforts and growth in these areas: _____.
- What’s most meaningful to me about our connection is: ______.
- Great job! Nice work! Well done.
- These are the ways in which you have touched my life and made me better: _____.
- It’s an honor to know you and to be close to you.
- I want the very best for you.
- I cherish the following experiences we’ve shared: _______.
- I trust you. I trust in our relationship.
- I forgive you. I let go of my resentments.
- These are all of the wonderful, positive qualities I see in you: _____.
- Your greatest gifts and strengths are: _____.
- I respect you.
- I respect your decisions even though they’re different from mine or what I’ve recommended. You’re free to make your own choices.
- I support you in any and every way that I can.
- I believe in you.
- I lovingly and trustingly give you the time and space you need.
- You can achieve anything you want in life.
- You are special. You are divinely and uniquely YOU.
- You are free to be your authentic self in the context of our relationship.
- I welcome you to be honest and truthful with me.
- I desire to have/maintain an intimate and loving relationship with you.
- You elicit the following positive emotions and feelings in me: _______.
- You are not responsible for me, for my bad behaviors or my poor choices.
- What would you like from me or from our relationship?
- It’s not your fault. I don’t blame you.
- I support you in taking care of yourself.
- Your feelings are understandable and normal responses to everything you have been through.
- I do not expect you to be perfect. I absolutely understand you are a human being and that none of us are perfect.
- I acknowledge my areas of needed improvement including ABC, and am working on them by doing XYZ.
- It’s important to me to know and understand you.
- I come to you with an open heart and an open mind.
- I love you fully, completely, and exactly as you are.
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