Our major needs for love, companionship and significance can be met through a group of authentic friendships. Someone with 3-5 friends will be more patient, calm, and rational when meeting people, dating and creating a relationship. He will be more successful in finding love and happiness because he does not put all his eggs in one basket. By expecting that one person will satisfy all his needs, he is ultimately sentencing himself to lifelong suffering.
If you are a gay man over 40, three psychological areas will either break you or make you! Shame, Partner Selection and Social Engagement. If you succeed at those three, the rest should fall into place automatically. Read below and watch the video to find out more.
Gay men go through three cycles of the coming out process as described in the book “The Velvet Rage”. Those cycles are crucial to understand for any gay man who is looking to create a successful romantic relationship and who wants a social life that includes trust, loyalty and respect. The video you are about to see describes the personal story of Robert – Paul’s client who has gone through all 3 stages and now shares his experiences.
Curing HIV is easier than you think. We first need to let go of the myths about the the science, let go of the manipulation of the industry and we need leadership to take action. We can create our own lab and hire our own scientists who can focus exclusively on the cure instead of temporary solutions.
Gay life is different from straight life in many ways. Gay men don’t have the same patterns of behavior, the same moral code, gay men don’t have a philosophy yet. If during the first 10 years after coming out your life is difficult – it is because it’s supposed to be difficult because you don’t know how it “all” works, nobody taught you how to “Be Gay”.
Gay social empire will make every gay man happy. If you live in an environment where being gay can be open, authentic and transparent – creating a social empire – a social experience where you meet a lot of people and consistently stay in contact with them is easier than you think. The biggest obstacle to creating your gay social empire is the feeling of separation and the feeling of judgment you have towards other gay men.
The most wonderful aspect of gay life lies ahead. Gay Renaissance is the reawakening of the gay spirit after years of battles legalizing gay marriage and laying out the legal infrastructure for cultural revolution for gay men.