Ready For Marriage/Love Or Still Experimenting?

We spend half of our life figuring out who we are and what we want. Being ready for a relationship is the end result of that process. Not knowing who we are and what we want creates confusion during dating and inability to follow through. In addition, being driven by sex and status also delays the process of clarity and authenticity about our needs.  We are distracted by the superficial sexual impulses and the status seeking to give us a sensation of significance. 

Emotional connections for gay men are not a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength.

When a man discovers how to express his emotions, his life changes instantly. Emotional awareness makes a man more powerful. The obstacles related to withholding emotions are no longer present and the man can move forward without being held back. Stuckness happens when a man cannot open up emotionally. But when emotional expression is restored – he is able to change and move forward with his plans.