Double Your Gay Dating Confidence

Double Your Confidence In Gay Dating

We lose belief in relationships when we lack the skills to make them work. Lack of skills often comes with the feeling of entitlement – which can create confusion and disappointment. This is why the process of believing in relationships begins with the development of skills. Based on 8 years of coaching and training, I have found that three core skills are necessary.

Art In Gay Life

Your relationship with art is one of the most important relationships you will have in your life – similar to the relationship with your lover and the relationship with God. Those gay men who have an ongoing relationship with art, often show emotional availability, self-awareness, and curiosity – traits that make personal relationships easier and longer.

Warning About Grindr And It’s Effects On Gay Men

Relationships are possible for every gay man regardless of age, body type and experience.  But relationships are not possible for those gay men who are still living in the space of shame and primitivism. Grindr is a classical example of a culture of shame and tribalism – reducing the complex and intricate meaning of relationships to the primitive and tribal.  Grindr rejects all values that make healthy relationships possible and emphasizes a “throw away” culture and anti-human attitudes.

Gay Awakening – The First Step

Gay relationships don’t exist in a vacuum of empty space. Cultural norms that promote sexual compatibility need to be rejected. Instead – those cultural norms that promote emotional connections and spiritual growth – must be developed and build to create a healthy container for a serious and long term relationship.