Sexual compatibility can be seen as an insecurity that protects gay men from embracing wholeness in themselves and others. Human relationships require a combination of emotion, intellect, and spirit to thrive and grow. Psychologist Dr. Deborah Taj Anapol, states, "Sexual compatibility is only one piece of the puzzle. It's important, but it's not the whole story." Therefore, relationships based solely on sexual compatibility can leave individuals feeling unsatisfied and disconnected from their partners.

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Coming out is not limited to telling others you are gay. Proper coming out includes healthy socialization that involves multiple parts. These parts include the mind, emotions, spirit, and body, and they all contribute to a healthy and wholesome dating life. In this video, we'll take a closer look at these four dimensions and explain why wholesome dating involves all of them, while fragmented dating involves only the sexual part.

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